Today was an action day, so far. We have seen two doctors, two PA’s and been stuck with a needle already.
Yesterday Aly had an ultrasound that revealed there were five abnormal lymph nodes. They performed a needle biopsy and the result came back cancerous.
We met with the surgical oncologist this morning and the results of that meeting was that we were going to an oncologist. We met with Dr. Morrow who gave us quite a bit of info, first of which is that at this point with a lump with cancer and lymph nodes that Aly would currently be listed as a stage 3 cancer.
Dr. morrow made it clear that she felt time was of the essence due to the aggression and Potential growth rate of Aly’s cancer. The cell cycle can be rated 1-100, Aly’s is currently a 98 which means that it’s propensity to spread and grow is high.
After meeting with Dr. Morrow our thoughts about how much time we had till we needed to start Aly’s chemotherapy treatment were drastically changed. Due to time and the need to treat Aly’s cancer quickly and aggressively we will do what we can about fertility and preserving eggs but as of now it looks as though that will not be able to happen.
We believe God when he says is Psalm 128:
Your wife will be like a fruitful grapevine,
flourishing within your home.
Your children will be like vigorous young olive trees
as they sit around your table. (Psalm 128:3 NLT)
Today we have dealt with the issue of bi-lateral mastectomy and reconstruction and then also with the possibility that chemotherapy could affect ability to have children.
Lord Jesus I believe in your promises but my heart is broken for my wife, please work on our behalf. Please restore our fortunes, Jeremiah 29:11.
The God that put us here will deliver us, Lord please make me the man that you called me to be for you but also my wife.
Tomorrow chemotherapy begins.
The doctors here are already calling her an angel, didn’t take Aly long to win these people over either.